You are in a process

You are in a process of learning about yourself and life. In that process you change.

A marriage is a process. If you are married and living with your partner then you are learning about yourself, love and another. Marriage sets up a process of learning and growth.

Psychotherapy is a process. In that process you learn about yourself. In that process you change. 

Being born again spiritually also starts a process of learning about yourself and growing. That process of change is a function of our increased commune with God.

In many different ways you are in a process of learning and growing. From this there will be a time when your life will bear fruit. Your job is not to produce fruit - that is an outcome of the process you are in. Your job is to benefit from the process.